Designed To Align | The Life You Built No Longer Fits.
Designed To Align | The Life You Built No Longer Fits.
Where Misalignment Becomes Information Not Failure
The Life You Built No Longer Fits. That's Not Failure. That's Information.
Human Design coaching for women over 40 navigating life and career transitions.
You built a life that once made sense.
The career. The progression. The version of you that held everything together.
But now you're clock watching by 10am.
Googling answers you already know.
Showing up. Doing the things.
Wondering when it starts to feel like yours again.
You're not falling apart.
You're becoming.
And this is exactly where the work begins.
Misalignment Isn’t A Problem.
It’s A Signal
Feeling lost, drained, or disconnected isn't failure. It's information.
A quiet signal that something in your life is shifting.
A message from your body wisdom guiding you toward what needs attention.
As women, we carry layers of conditioning.
Some obvious. Others subtle.
Over time, they shape how we make decisions, what we tolerate, and what we believe is possible.
It makes it harder to hear yourself.
But misalignment also reveals where you've drifted from your natural direction.
My work helps you understand what misalignment is showing you and find clarity when you’re feeling stuck in life or unsure of your next step.
You're Not Stuck. You're Becoming
Clarity doesn’t come from forcing answers.
It emerges when you begin understanding yourself differently.
Human Design provides a framework for recognising: your natural rhythm
your decision-making style
where you're overriding your body wisdom
what this season is showing you and what it's asking you to recalibrate
From there, direction becomes clearer.
Not because you're chasing it but because you're aligned with it.
Ways To Work Together
Wherever you are in your season of becoming for the woman in-between who knows something needs to change but isn't sure what comes next yet, there's a place to start.
The Best Of Both Worlds
Hybrid Exploration Session — £45
If you're not sure where to start, this is a strong place to begin.
You'll get a 20-minute private 1:1 with me first, so you've got a personalised starting point, applied to your own situation.
Then you'll expand on that further in an in-person 90 minute small group session at Onze Atelier, Cheadle Village, where we take the themes you've uncovered and go deeper together.
This structure gives you both my coaching experience and my Human Design knowledge, working together, rather than one or the other.
📍 23 October 2026, 11am, Onze Atelier, Cheadle Village.
Small group, just 6 places.
Book Your Place
Private Coaching: Six weeks, three sessions.
Living your design in real life and letting misalignment guide you, with personalised 1:1 support throughout.
£599
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The Design Living Method
This isn't a linear journey with a finish line.
It's a cycle one you'll move through again and again as you grow. There is no arrival
Because misalignment doesn't stop showing up.
You just get better at listening to what it's telling you.
NOTICE
Something feels off. You start paying attention to what's draining you and what's lighting you up.
UNLEARN
You begin to see the conditioning the decisions you've been making for everyone else but yourself.
RECALIBRATE
You establish a new baseline. You get curious about misalignment instead of trying to fix it.
LIVE YOUR DESIGN
You stop waiting to feel ready. You move forward from what feels true until the next nudge shows up and the cycle begins again.
This isn't about getting it right. It's about getting it true.
Hi I’m Oyima
Before I discovered Human design my life followed the expected path of going to university and graduating with a Law Degree and then spending 12 years in medical regulation, looking for what's underneath things and getting to the truth of a matter.
I certified through Hillary McVeigh's Advanced Human Design Certification, June 2025.
Despite my qualification, I built a business around Human Design and spent a year getting it completely wrong.
I thought understanding my design would create instant success. So when things didn't work I assumed I was the problem.
I kept trying harder. Planning and learning more because I thought more knowledge meant more success. just hoping it would click.
Until I started noticing the same thing happening in different areas of my life and business. Different symptoms. Different circumstances. The same pattern underneath.
One evening at 5pm I stopped. Dropped the plan. Grabbed the mic. And just spoke.
That episode became one of my most downloaded.
But that wasn't the whole lesson. I started to realise that misalignment wasn't the obstacle. It was information — a way of showing me the patterns I couldn't see while I was inside them.
That's what Human Design became for me: not just a way to understand myself, but a way to recognise the patterns that keep repeating and understand what they're trying to show me.
I'm a Human Design coach for women over 40 in life and career transitions. I help you take your design from something you read about to something you actually live — using misalignment as the process, not the problem.
Getting it wrong is the point.
Read my full story.
Testimonials
Kate
Before: Stuck in a rut with no idea what the issues could be and felt like she was coasting through life. Aware of people pleasing tendencies but unable to break free from them.
The shift: Understanding the roots of her conditioning through her Human Design and finally seeing why.
After: Reclaimed her time, energy and focus. Breaking free from unhealthy conditioning.
In her words:
"Not only was my Human Design report validating, encouraging and insightful — Oyima and her natural intuition helped uncover what was holding me back. This has been more helpful than any other therapy modality I have undergone."
— Kate
Laura
Before: Building her business but feeling stuck without knowing why. Second guessing her decisions and unsure where to focus her energy strengths, weaknesses, all of it felt unclear.
The shift: One conversation and everything started to make sense. Not just about her business, about herself.
After: Clearer on how she shows up, strategies in place for when she feels overwhelmed, and more confidence to know who she is and to be kinder to herself.
In her words:
"I instantly felt relaxed, like I was chatting with a friend. Oyima was so knowledgeable and passionate. It was so interesting to resonate with everything she said, like I was starting to understand who I am on a deeper level. It's given me more confidence to know who I am and to be kinder to myself. I highly recommend having a chat with Oyima, even if you're feeling unsure."
— Laura
